This is now the 3rd season of the bachelor that we have had here in NZ. Season 1 set the bar pretty high, however, it seem’s since then standards have just gone down hill. Art Green is still by far my fave bachelor. When I say standards have dropped I’m mainly referring to the girls and possibly a bit with the main guy himself too just a little.
Watching the first episode was just cringe worthy! Firstly it wasn’t even like a double episode or anything which was a let down. The girls I must say are beautiful, but some of them, actually most of them come across as being very immature and not that bright either. The way they were all chomping at the bit on the first episode about “interrupting” they were behaving like hyenas. I was like, “calm the fuck down girls, and pull yourselves together”. Who knows maybe being in a fish bowl situation it’s pushing them to act out of character. But geez!!!
Now the Bachelor himself, I think it’s great that they have found someone who is just a regular guy, he’s not a millionaire (not that there are many eligible one’s in NZ), he isn’t an entrepreneur who is going to then boost his business by being on the show and he isn’t a douche bag (aka Jordan season 2). He’s just a good guy who is passionate about his job. He come’s across as really down to earth and genuine but I must say I find him very awkward. Just odd thing’s like hand gestures and on the dates, it’s so obvious when he is going to give the girl a rose because you can see his arm just hanging down low and holding it in his hands. Not smooth at all! I just wish he was more of a manly man, if you know what I mean. He come’s across as really shy and he may be different if it was outside of the show, I suppose when everything is produced and you’re told what to do etc, it is a bit unnatural. Hopefully as the episodes go on he relaxes a bit more.
The girls should be told that one of The Bachelor 101’s of what not to do is, complain to the guy about how all the other girls are being catty and bitchy etc, it just’s makes you look like an idiot. Yes I’m talking about you Katey! Grow up!!!
The date’s are painful to watch because they just seem so unnatural and rehearsed, and when he says, “he’s put together something special”, does he actually have a say in what the dates are or helps plan them, or is it all just organised and get’s told this is what you’re doing.
My favourites are Viarni & Bel, so I’m keeping my fingers crossed. Even though it is painful to watch, it’s one of those things that because it’s so bad you cant help but watch.
At the end of the day it’s not easy putting yourself out there and hat’s off to the girls. Everyone will have their opinions good or bad, let’s just hope whoever end’s up at the end, they truly love each other and it last’s.